The temptation to just throw in the towel and give up practicing the guitar actually comes to us all. Believe it or not, some people who are out in gig land playing regular live gigs are people who are guilty of “not practicing”. How can this possibly be? You may well ask! In actual fact, once the learning of a specific set of songs is done, and you have it all “down pat”, there is a strong human inclination to “rest on your laurels”, or “take it easy on yourself”, and develop a sense of (sometimes unwitting) musical complacency.
How do you combat this tendency? Well, in my humble opinion, the only way to do that, is to stay interested. How is this done? Well, I guess you could say it’s all in the mind!! That is to say, the heart attitude that you bring to whatever you do in life. If the spark has gone, and sometimes it can, and does, then the only thing left is either to dig in deeper, or to have a break from playing. This may seem sacrilegious to some, but I have known people who have openly confessed to having a “lay off” from playing their instrument. This can sometimes be owing to family commitments, or other seismic life events that put a very different complexion on things. People’s priorities can and do change. This is a fact of life that is unavoidable.
How much is music woven into the very fabric of your being? This to me seems to be a very elastic question, with very elastic answers! One person’s occasional hobby is another one’s passion, and raison d’etre. I know many people who obsess about sport, whereas to me personally, it could just vanish and my life wouldn’t look very different from how it is now. Other people find the very idea of living without it an anathema.
The above discussion leads me onto the conclusion that your success or failure in what you choose to do depends in no insignificant part on how much it means to you.
I do hope that this hasn’t put anyone off!!! It may cause people to “soul search” a little bit in order to find out about themselves, and how their feelings about music, and more specifically, the guitar affect their daily lives. In my experience, this is a question that is always best put to oneself.